Written by matt on 30 August 2009
The Relationship Solution Project wants to hear from you! How do you define love in a long term relationship? These are some statements that we have heard people make. Do you agree with the following statements? Use them as a tool to gather your thoughts, and then post your answers in the comment area. Remember, [Read more]
Written by matt on 29 August 2009
Why is it that after some time goes by in a relationship the romance tends to fade away, those little habits or quirks that once were cute have now become annoyances and the person that can do no wrong has mysteriously become the person that can’t do anything right. Okay, so yeah, maybe they still [Read more]
Written by matt on 27 August 2009
As I recently discovered that over two million divorces take place each year my stomach turned a little sour. Not just because of the terribly high number of marriages that fail but because I remembered the pain in my own life when my parents divorced and when my previous marriage was finally over. I suddenly [Read more]
Written by matt on 23 August 2009
Taking responsibility for our mistakes helps our spouses see that we’re serious about restoring harmony to our marriage. It shows our partners that they are valued and that our relationship is important to us. When we find reasons to blame our spouse for our actions, it not only closes the door of communication but [Read more]
Written by matt on 23 August 2009
Consider this: If you have two people sharing a bank account and one person is always making the deposits, while the other is constantly making withdrawals, what happens? Anger? Frustration? Resentment? If both people are making the deposits and moving toward a common goal, the account grows and even starts collecting interest! It also [Read more]
Written by matt on 17 August 2009
Do you think your marriage could use a little more romance? Maybe even a lot more? Keeping romance alive is vital to the success of a marriage. Romance does not have to be expensive; it just takes a little creativity and effort! For instance, you are going to eat lunch next weekend so [Read more]
Written by matt on 08 August 2009
Does tension or anger seem to find its way into your marital disagreements? Do emotions take over creating more strife rather than resolution? Do you feel as if the only way to be heard is to yell at your spouse? Some couples have even told me that sometimes their arguments get so heated they [Read more]