Sexless Marriage For Women
Help! I’m Stuck in a Sexless Marriage!
“My husband barely touches me anymore… I long for human contact”
“I’m tired of begging and being rejected”
“He says sex is not that important to him”
“I am very angry, lonely, and bitter”
“I am stuck in this sexless marriage”
“I love him and want our marriage to work, but I am not ready to give up my sex life”
Can you relate with any of the above statements? If so, you are not alone. Many couples are facing the same problem you are; they are living in a sexless marriage. It can be draining, humiliating, confusing and lonely when your husband or boyfriend is no longer sexually intimate with you.
I know because I’ve been there. After 7 years of marriage and three children, my husband and I got caught up in the day to day stresses of life and did not tend to our sex life. I was miserable, he was miserable and eventually we separated then divorced. As I look back on that relationship, I see many areas where we went wrong. Not tending to our love life and living in a sexless marriage was a huge mistake. Had I known then what I know now, we could have changed things around.
Today, I am happily re-married and have found a great program that offers some tips and tools that will light up your sex life and keep the romance and passion alive. It’s working for us! By focusing on our wants and needs and trusting each other to communicate what these are, we know that we will continue on the path to happiness and fulfillment.
At this point, you have probably tried to come up with every reason why you have lost the sexual closeness that you once had and asked yourself, “How did I end up in a sexless marriage?”
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He doesn’t find me attractive anymore… He drinks too much…He is depressed… He’s taking a new medication… His penis isn’t functioning properly…
He is having an affair… He’s gay…He just doesn’t love me anymore.
Or, more commonly, women place the blame on themselves:
I’m ugly…I’m fat…I don’t know how to please him sexually…I did something wrong…I’m not good enough…I am not loveable…I do not deserve to be happy.
To add to your pain, when you’ve tried to talk to him about it he gets uncomfortable and either he shuts down or he places blame on a number of things: 1) you or your looks 2) he’s too tired 3) he’s too stressed 4) he’s just not in the mood. Maybe it even leads to an argument.
This can leave you feeling like there’s no point in bringing it up, and lead to further damage to your self-esteem and self-worth. In effect, creating a cycle where now you don’t want to have sex with him either. As one wife I know, stuck in a sexless marriage, put it, “One day we finally had sex but I could tell that he was forcing himself to be with me. I felt so bad after that I just wanted to take a shower and forget it ever happened. Since then he has not touched me and I don’t know what to do.”
So what can you do? You can continue the old, stuck cycle if you are too afraid of bringing about the change to happiness and a fulfilled sex life. Perhaps you’re not ready to “rock the boat” (no pun intended!). Of course, this information will still be here when you’re ready.
If you are ready to get “rockin’” right now, I highly recommend the “Fix Your Sexless Marriage” program. The great part about this program is that it concentrates on your individual, unique marriage. It also separates men and women and their perspectives, allowing you to target the areas most helpful for you and helping you create a solution that works for you and your husband (or boyfriend).
Help yourself, your husband, and your marriage by bringing the passion back and overcoming your sexless marriage starting today.
